On who we are

I guess after all is said and done, our hope is that we are better today than we were yesterday, and that we're better tomorrow than we were today...

On family reunions

Last night we had our Chin family reunion, which is my grandma's family on my dad's side. She has four sisters and two brothers, and almost all of them have kids, who also have kids. Needless to say, there are a lot of people at these things haha.

Family reunions are always interesting because I would guess that most aren't really sure what to expect. The hope is that everyone would be happy to see each other, being that a decent amount of time has passed since the last time the family got together, but on the other hand, it's very possible for it to be weird, because, well a decent amount of time has passed since the last time the family got together.

Fortunately for us, especially my grandma (who basically planned the whole thing), it was a lot of fun. It had probably been a couple years since we'd seen everyone, but things just seemed to fall into place. It was awesome catching up with everyone, and you can't really go wrong with awesome food and new card games.

I guess it has to do with collective effort- if everyone tries to have fun and reconnect with each other, it's going to make the night a fun one.

I hope all of you had a nice holiday!

On the grinch

My reasoning for this post's title is solely because of the fact that only a grinch would write something such as the following on Christmas. Unfortunately, this has been something on my mind for quite some time, and it wasn't until now until I really had time to write this...

I really hope that growing up doesn't involve forgetting our joyful exuberance, losing our zest for life, and ultimately becoming so numbingly apathetic towards everything that we stop giving a fuck.

I know this may sound super pessimistic or emo (and pardon my language), and I've received some feedback on my blog that basically confirms this, but I feel like me trying to be an enthusiastic and compassionate person is becoming increasingly more difficult. I'm so emotionally tired, trying to fight people who don't seem to care about anything other than themselves, and it's really hard for me to continue to do so without being affected.

Some people say we should just worry about ourselves, and keep out of things that don't involve us. However, many would agree that selflessness (vs selfishness) is the answer. I would say I'm somewhere in between, but like I previously said, I'm getting worn down as I try to hold my ground.

Maybe I'm getting all worked up about nothing, and maybe it's immature to think this way or to get upset about something like this. I don't know, it's just something that really bothers me...

On perfect moments (pt. 2)

I wrote a post a little over a week ago about perfect moments, in which I asked for responses, and it turns out that I didn't get any. It's totally cool- I half expected as much.

Maybe because it's so hard to define what those perfect moments are. It's possible that we can't necessarily articulate them, and they sometimes just happen. I just hope that by reading that post, it made you guys think- that's one of the main reasons I write in this blog.

My hope for all of you is that at some point in your lives, you get to experience that perfect moment, and it'll be one of those things where you'll just know, and it'll be amazing.

I hope everyone is enjoying their time off, and that you all have a wonderful holiday!

On more Christmas songs

Here are some more of my favorites... they're really good...

Hark the Herald Angels Sing/Angels We Have Heard on High- Straight No Chaser (accapella)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2PedMcs8fA

Silent Night- The Temptations
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQ-lmFljC_A&feature=fvst

The First Noel- Kenny G
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zhe9bwb_Od0

On Christmas songs

Being that it's the middle of December, I would assume that most of us are currently listening to a bunch of Christmas songs. Here are a few of my favorites that I would encourage you to check out if you haven't already... I guarantee they're awesome :)

12 Days of Christmas- Straight No Chaser (accapella)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fe11OlMiz8&ob=av2e

The Christmas Can-Can- Straight No Chaser (accapella)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E-47VmFopE

This is Christmas- Luther Vandross

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZooeCired0s

On perfect moments

So I've never explicitly asked for a response to my blog posts before, but I guess there's a first time for everything. Most of the time while I'm commuting to work on BART, I find myself listening to my favorite playlists on my iPod mini, and yes, I have an iPod mini- have had it for about eight years now (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Kfox1-ZS60).

Anyway, sometimes, and this shouldn't come as a surprise to you all, my mind starts to wander. Tonight, for whatever reason, I started thinking about perfect moments- you know, when time seems to stand still, and there's nowhere else we'd rather be. They're those types of moments we'll never forget- they're simply perfect.

So let's try this and see what happens.

I want you guys to send me responses with what you consider to be the perfect moment. I'm really curious to see how other people interpret this concept. What I'll do, is hopefully get some responses soon, and then this next weekend, I'll write another post with what I receive (anonymously of course), and possibly add a few of my own. It can be a moment that has happened to you, or one you hope to experience some day, and can be as specific or general as you'd like. Either email (scott.wun@gmail.com), text (650-533-8765), or facebook message me. Everyone game?

"My life isn't perfect, but it does have perfect moments."

On jealousy and the truth

"If she ended up with someone else, would you be jealous?"- B

...in case we're unsure about how we truly feel...

On the "Rest of My Life"

Rest of My Life- Blessid Union of Souls

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33Kyx2ULZZs

"I know you're heard the excuses before
So I won't waste your time and I'll keep this short
I've bound my emotions 'cause I can't afford to be wrong

I know we've talked about being good friends
So we've been real careful of the signals we've sent
But all of your glances they came and the went to my head

And I'm not a man to throw words to the wind
When I said 'I love you' that's what I meant
And I plan to show you if it takes me the rest of my life
The rest of my life
The rest of my life

I don't want to rush this cause my greatest fear
is taking for granted what's taken us years
To build from the ground up with all of the tears that we cried

We've taken our time and for this I'm so glad
Now we can be sure that this moment will last
We've traveled a road of mistakes in our past to get here

And I'm not about to throw words to the wind
When I said 'I love you' that's what I meant
And I'm going to show you if it takes me the rest of my life
The rest of my life
The rest of my life

And I'm not a man to throw words to the wind
When I said "I love you" well, that's what I meant
And I plan to show you if it takes me the rest of my life
The rest of my life
The rest of my life"

On story writing

Life can be unfortunate in that we sometimes find ourselves living in someone else's story. I guess we just have to do our best to write our own ending.

On "The Lights"

"The lights, shining in the dark sky, were as beautiful as the moment surrounding them. Unfortunately, the reality was as muddled as their reflection in the water below. The music swelled, but was quickly blown away by the piercing wind. And that's when he knew he did not know."

On "The Star Spangled Banner"

Maybe it's because I'm into tradition and stuff like that, but I absolutely hate it, HATE IT, when people mess with the national anthem. I'll be honest, it's not even close to being the most interesting or exciting song in the world, but nevertheless, you gotta respect it.

1. When you're at an event where this song is being played or performed, take off your hat if you're wearing one, and listen to it. Don't talk- singing is cool, but hang up the phone, and just listen.

2. DON'T FORGET THE WORDS *cough* *cough* Christina Aguilera

3. If you're ever performing The Star Spangled Banner, don't try to make it artistic- this isn't the time to try to make a name for yourself. Please, it's a song that needs to be sung/played/performed as written. Don't hold "freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee" for ten minutes- that's tacky, and it can get really old really fast. Don't make the song last any longer than it needs to be, and please stay on key.

I know it's kinda weird that someone can get so riled up about this, but I've heard way too many people try to do way too much with this song, and it pisses me off every time.

On being vulnerable

A man stepped out to the edge, trembling in fear. Knowing full well the danger that could potentially ensue, he put himself out there, because he thought she deserved to know. He proceeded with mild caution and extreme hope. It didn't make sense to him, but that didn't matter anymore because of what she had said, and how real it appeared. The man took one more step and then went for broke; he jumped right in, and in an instant, it was out of his hands...

...and believe me, he didn't regret it.

There are going to be many times in our lives in which we're given the opportunity to be vulnerable. It can be incredibly scary, but in the end, what can we really accomplish by always holding ourselves back? Eventually, we all must develop that faith in ourselves, so we can have faith in each other as well.

On letting go

It's ironic how hard it can be to let go of something you never really had in the first place.

Sometimes our perceptions of what we want (or what could be) cloud our judgments about the reality facing us. That's when things begin to get complicated.

On apathy

Sometimes, I feel that life can be so much easier for those who are apathetic towards it. However, I feel that it can be less rewarding for them as well.

On caring

This post was inspired by a great conversation with an even greater friend.

It is so incredibly important for us to remember that we should never, ever feel bad about caring for those who mean the most to us. Though we may hold conflicting views or values regarding certain aspects of life, and silently pass judgment amongst one another, our just intentions should not be forgotten. At the end of the day, we're just looking out for each other.

Sometimes we see a friend in trouble, struggling through tough times. They may act out, or attempt to hold it all in, but in either case, they're unconsciously crying out for help. Many times we act, in the hopes of helping them through their trying situations, and unfortunately, we may do or say the wrong thing.

Regardless, we must not regret taking action if our intentions were selfless. We may get pushed away, and conflict can ensue. However, sometimes we need to sacrifice doing what is easy for doing what is right.

It's only because we care, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

On achievement

1) To accomplish, do successfully. 2) To win or attain, as by effort or skill.

Let us be inspired by what we have achieved thus far, and motivated by what we wish to achieve in the future.

On trying

I can guarantee that we will not be successful if we don't try.

On dealing

Just because you know something bad is going to happen, doesn't make it any easier when it actually does. Unfortunately, I guess it's just something you have to deal with.

On being irrational

If a rational man makes irrational decisions, does he actually become an irrational man? Or is it possible to make those decisions and remain a rational man?

This plays along with the question of how we define ourselves. What makes us who we are? Our choices? Thoughts? Opinions? Friends? Family? Religion? Or maybe our past?

It's interesting to think about because most everyone will give you a different answer, and it's difficult to say someone in particular has it figured out. Maybe it's impossible to designate just one of the many aspects of our lives to be the definition of who we are. Maybe it's completely unnecessary, or even foolish, to even attempt to disaggregate ourselves in such a manner. Especially because we're always changing.

If you're new to my blog, these are the things I think about sometimes, and as you can tell, my thoughts can often get muddled into one giant ball of confusion. But in the end, I'd encourage you to think about it...why not? lol

We were who we were, and now we are who we are.

On the purpose people serve

Sometimes people enter our lives to serve a certain purpose and nothing more. Unfortunately, we can't remain close to everyone who touches us, and we need to understand that. They impact our lives, teach us what we need to learn, give us the experiences we need to have, and that's it. It's kinda sad when you think about it, but it's just the way things go.

The way I see it, we just have to enjoy the good times we spend with people, and appreciate the special moments as they're happening.

On flashpoint

"It's better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6."

Sometimes we're forced to make split-second decisions, and I believe that it's so important to go with your gut.

On the "oh..." moment

You know the moment when you realize she's not as cool as you thought she was? Yea, that sucks... but it happens :/

On fried chicken, video games, and beer

As an outspoken Yankee-hater (and Sox fan), it (almost physically) pained me to hear that three of baseball's most prominent pitchers, members of Boston's starting rotation and icons of the infamous Red Sox Nation, would leave the dugout to eat fast-food fried chicken, play video games, and drink beer in the clubhouse.

THIS ALL COMING IN THE MIDDLE OF AN EPICALLY HORRIBLE SEPTEMBER COLLAPSE.

With just 24 games left in the season, the Sox held a nine game lead in the American League Wild Card race. NINE GAMES!!! Who blows that kind of lead? Well, apparently the fat-ass drunks who prefer wasting their time with video games do. In September, John Lackey, John Lester, and Josh Beckett went a combined 2-7 with a 6.45 ERA as their team failed to make the playoffs. Baseball writers are calling it one of the worst September collapses in baseball history.

WTF.

Terry Francona, what are you doing? You're the manager! Manage your damn team!

Obviously, I'm very upset by this, because even though I'm an A's fan first, and a Giants fan second, I love rooting for the Red Sox. However, this is simply unacceptable. If players are going to do shit like this, and management isn't going to say anything about it, then they don't deserve to play the game of baseball, let alone go to the playoffs.

It's not the "Curse of the Bambino" (yea, I said it) that keeps you from winning. It's the spoiled lazy-asses that think they can do whatever the hell they want that hold you back.

I would give anything to be a professional baseball player, getting paid to play the greatest game in the world. These guys don't seem to appreciate what they've got, and it's really a shame.

On excellence

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."- Aristotle

Excellence is not just a one-time thing. It's the product of continuous achievement.

On working hard

Everybody wants to be rich, but few are willing to work for it.

On awesome people

It's come to my attention that I may be too liberal with my use of the word, "Awesome". For those of you who agree, deal with it lol- it's something I refuse to change about myself. That being said...

There are so many awesome people in the world that don't know how truly awesome they are, and that's a shame. They need to know, and that's one of the reasons I use it.

On taking it back

I'm sure most of us have experienced the situation where we're talking to someone, and we realize that, as the words are coming out of our mouths, we wish we could take them back. Whether it be an insult to a rival, or unsolicited advice to a friend, we come away from it thinking that we should have just kept our mouth shut.

Maybe I'm just being selfish, using the word "we", grouping us together when really this has nothing to do with you guys. I messed up. It was my fault, and I wish I could take it back. It's a pretty shitty feeling, knowing I've overstepped my bounds. I had no right to say what I said, and whether it be out of drunken stupidity, or merely ill-timed arrogance, I apologize.

People say that it's a good thing, being aware of how we're being perceived by others. I agree with those people with the qualification that it's going to lead to over-analysis. Hence, the blogpost. However, learning from our missteps and turning out better because of it- well, that's something positive that we can all agree on.

My intentions were just, but my actions were not, and I'm sorry.

On "Venny Viddy Vicci"

For those of you who read my blog, I want to take this opportunity to thank you for listening to what I have to say. I don't know how lame/corny this may sound, but I do, in fact, take a lot of pride in what I publish here, and it means a lot that my voice can be heard.

That being said, I've just started reading another blog, written by my good friend, Vidur Malik, called Venny Viddy Vicci. So far, he's posted some of his insights about the intricacies of professional football, and you can't help but note the passion he has for the game. I don't think I've ever met another person who writes with such eloquence and grace- he's truly an amazing writer. I would compel all of you to check out his blog (linked below), and if you're not a huge football fan, you might soon become one.

http://vennyviddyvicci.tumblr.com/

On the past two weeks

Pictures from the past two weeks:

Tiger Roll

(Salmon, baked eel, scallion, and smelt egg on a California roll)

Ami Sushi

Westwood, Los Angeles

Spider Roll
Ami Sushi
Westwood, Los Angeles

Osha's Sea
(Combination of prawns, salmon, scallops, calamari and crab claws with a thick spicy curry sauce and light coconut milk over deep fried eggplant)
Osha Thai
San Francisco, California

Pad Thai
Osha Thai
San Francisco, California

PwC Office- San Jose

Cake by me, Alexis, and Anita

Homemade Croque Madame

(Over-easy egg with goat cheese, tomato, havarti, and arugula with vinaigrette over sourdough toast)

Peach Salad with tomato, arugula, goat cheese, and vinaigrette

Drinking on the roof- SF

Wacky old guy band at Maggie McGarry's Irish Pub

On working

I realize that I haven't written a post in about two-and-a-half weeks, but work's been pretty busy. The following is just some stuff I've picked up during that time.

It's interesting that we go to school for so many years, trying to figure out what to do with our lives, hoping to learn enough to get good jobs, and having successful careers, because it seems that the actual learning starts once we finish school, and begin working. I've only been working full-time for four weeks now, and let me tell you, the learning curve has been so incredibly steep, it's kinda ridiculous (but in a good way, nonetheless).

Since my first day, I've tried to be a sponge, absorbing everything I could, because there's so much to know in order to be successful. I've met as many people as possible- picked their brains, asked for advice, and began cultivating personal and business relationships. As a result, these are some of the most important things I've learned.

Expectations. It's good to have realistic expectations about the job- so many people complain about having so much to do at work, but honestly, what do they expect? It's work. We can't expect to enjoy every moment of it, but at the same time, liking what we do is a huge plus. It's also really important to understand the expectations of ourselves, so we can more successfully further our career.

Personality. Almost every job entails working with other people, and I work for a client services firm. During our first week, a partner spoke to us and said, "We're in the people business." It's not enough to be intelligent, and it's not enough to work hard- they both help (a lot), but there's so much more to it. Each day at work, I'm constantly working with other people- engagement team members, clients, etc. Being personable and developing relationships with people is sometimes just as important as the work itself. We have to know how to connect and communicate with others in order to excel.

Adaptability. Things at work are always moving quickly, and things can change just like that. I've learned that we must be able to adapt to all those changes, so we don't fall behind. Flexibility can help us stand out in the eyes of those we work for.

Attitude. It's all about attitude. Sometimes it's not about what we do, but instead, how we do it. Maintaining a positive attitude is the key, and building our reputation of being such a person can only help.

Like I said, I've only been working full-time for almost a month, but in that short period of time I've learned things that I'll carry with me for the rest of my career. My hope is that this can help you in any way.

On a more personal note, works going really well- I've met a lot of awesome people, learned a ton, and I'm excited for what's to come.

On connections

Life isn't so much about what you know and how well you know it as much as it is about who you know and how well you know them. Making connections with people is such an integral part of who we are. No matter how independent or self-sufficient we claim to be, it's damn near impossible to go through day after day without others. That's why it's so important to make those connections and build those relationships- you never know when you're going to need someone to lean on.

On age (part two)

It isn't about the years in our life. It's about the life in our years. At the end of the day, our age is just a number, and it doesn't really matter how old we are. It's about how old we act, and what we do with our lives year in and year out.

On feelings

No matter how irrational or unrealistic our feelings may be, in the end, we can't help the way we feel, and there's not much we can do about it- it is what it is.

We should never feel guilty about the way we feel, because it's ultimately out of our control. However, we are responsible for how we act on those feelings.

On being realistic

One of the most difficult things to do in life is to be realistic. As we are so heavily influenced by our respective optimism or pessimism, forcing ourselves to be realistic at opportune times is what will help us get to where we need to go. By no means is this an easy feat, but a necessary one nonetheless.

In a recent radio interview on KNBR 680, San Francisco Giants broadcaster Duane Kuiper said that there are three types of people: optimists, pessimists, and realists. Which one are you?

I'm an optimist, and I always will be. However, I do find that I occasionally have to challenge myself to face the reality of certain situations. I think that it's helped me thus far, and will continue to benefit me in the future. I guess we'll see...

This can seem like a relatively simple concept, but unfortunately, like many other things, it's easier said than done.

On doing good

There is so much bad in the world that we should all do as much good as we can to balance it out.

It doesn't take an inordinate amount of effort to do good. I believe that it can actually take more effort, sometimes, to do bad things. Based on this, it seems like a no-brainer.

On the CPA Exam

The CPA Exam is hard. Not that I thought it would be easy, but I'm not gonna lie, it's pretty rough. For those of you who are unfamiliar, the exam is divided into four parts: 1) Regulation (3 hrs) 2) Financial Accounting and Reporting (4 hrs) 3) Audit and Attestation (4 hrs) 4) Business Environment and Concepts (3 hrs). Sounds like a lot, huh?

Well, the good news is that you only take one section at a time. The bad news is that to pass the exam, you have to take and pass all four sections within an 18 month period, each with a score of 75 or higher. Believe me, it's the most difficult 75 you'll ever have to get. Most people take review classes, and schedule the four tests over the course of a year. I took all four in just two months. Insane, right? The reason being that I wanted to finish them before I started working full time.

In college, I'd say that I was pretty efficient and diligent with my studying. Having gone through the process of taking Becker CPA Review Classes, reviewing the lectures, doing the practice questions, and studying for hours on end, it makes college seem like cake. For the past two and a half months, I've probably averaged about five hours of intense studying every day. I took my fourth test earlier today, and hopefully it'll be my last- fingers crossed. I gotta say that I learned a ton from all the studying, and feel this knowledge will definitely benefit me in the future. However, I'm so drained right now from all this, it's kinda ridiculous.

I'm so glad to be done...for now...work starts Monday.

On shrinking

About a couple weeks ago, I was hanging out with Alexis at her house and she happened to have a yard stick lying around. I decided to measure myself and unfortunately learned that I'm an inch shorter than I though I was, and there wasn't a whole lot of height there to begin with. So yea, that sucked...

On legends

"Remember kid, there's heroes and there's legends. Heroes get remembered, but legends never die. Follow your heart kid, and you'll never go wrong."- The Sandlot (1993)

On lying

A majority of the time, the reason behind a lie is more important than the lie itself.

This then begs the question, why did they do it?

On "riding shotgun"

So I was watching the show Top Shot on History Channel, and learned what I consider to be an interesting fact about the origin of the term "riding shotgun."

Back in the wild west, stagecoaches were primarily used to make deliveries, most of the time for mail services. Because of the perceived valuables on board, stagecoaches were prime targets for robberies. To mitigate this, the businesses would hire skilled marksmen to protect the items being delivered, and these shooters would sit next to the driver in the front of the stagecoach with shotguns (10 gauge), armed and ready to fire.

Just thought that was kinda interesting...

On humanity

When asked what surprised him most about humanity, the Dali Lama answered, “Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”

We may not completely understand the reasons for what we do, or why we do it, where we've been, or where we're going, but if we continue to smile, laugh, look out for, and love each other, I think we'll be ok...

On personality

"Beauty gets the attention. Personality gets the heart."

There's not really much else that needs to be said :)

Obviously, an initial attraction is important to making a good first impression, but it doesn't mean a whole lot if you come to learn that the person is lacking in the personality department. Getting to know someone, and learning about how they live their life is such an exciting process, and sharing smiles and laughs along the way can lead to something real. Building meaningful relationships goes way beyond what you see in the mirror- it's about what you discover deeper within.

Okay, there was a little more that needed to be said lol

On catching foul balls

Catching a foul ball at a baseball game is a very difficult and impressive thing to do. Catching one with your bare hands- even more impressive. However, if you have a glove, and miss the ball- well, that's just disappointing. You don't get many chances, and if you don't use your glove the right way, it's embarrassing. In short, if you bring your glove, don't miss the ball if it comes to you- you'll get booed.

Also, if you bring a date to a game and a ball is hit at you, don't move out of the way. Man up and protect her, or you'll look like a tool.

Just sayin'

On TV shows I started watching this summer

If you haven't already checked them out, here are some really cool shows I've started to watch during this summer:

Suits (USA)

Franklin & Bash (TNT)

Necessary Roughness (USA)

Man V Food (Travel Channel)

Storage Wars (A&E)

Auction Hunters (Spike)

Operation Repo (truTV)

Pawn Stars (History Channel)

On customer service

Maybe it's just me, but it seems that most of customer service is really disappointing. Don't these people understand that dealing with people is their job? It's basically at the point where we're pleasantly surprised when these people actually do what they're supposed to do. How sad is that? I don't mean to sound arrogant when I say this, because I've worked multiple jobs in which I've interacted with many, many people on a daily basis. It's just that it's really not that difficult- do your job.

On Lake Tahoe

Pictures from our vacation:

The Log Cabin in Kings Beach- awesome breakfast!

Lobster Benedict from The Log Cabin

Incline Village Mountain Golf Course- the result
of my tee shot on the 15th hole, right before my birdie :)

Paella from Caliente! in Kings Beach

Waterfall on Mount Rose during our 6 mile hike

Derek on top of a huge patch of snow on Mount Rose

Mom and Dad during our hike

trees

View of Lake Tahoe from Mount Rose

On top of the world (kinda)

On being single

Some believe that only when you are truly able to be yourself as a single person, will you be ready to be in a relationship.

Knowing who you are, and being comfortable with yourself, can really help you become a better partner to someone else.

On making decisions and pleasing everybody

The funny thing about decisions is that we don't seem to have to talk ourselves into the right ones. That's why it's important to trust our gut.

When we try to please everybody, we end up pleasing nobody. The unfortunate truth is that it's impossible for a single decision to make everyone happy; there's always someone who ends up unsatisfied. Knowing this, let's not leave ourselves to be that someone. I'm not advocating selfishness, but believe we should truly understand the reasons behind our decisions.

On going hard

A lot of the time when I run or play sports, I feel myself holding back, and I hate that. The reason I do it is because I am so afraid of pushing too hard and getting hurt again, and being sidelined from everything is one of the worst feelings in the world. It's really not worth it. I remember when I was younger, I would go harder than anyone else out there, and that's what defined me. Everything is different now, and I get that's how things go, but it still sucks. As we get older, we become more experienced and begin to learn. And yet, things don't really get any easier.

On breaking away

There is no prescription for life, and you know yourself better than anyone. There is absolutely nothing wrong with going off path and doing what you have to do. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons.

Breakaway- Kelly Clarkson

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-3vPxKdj6o&ob=av2e

"Grew up in a small town

And when the rain would fall down
I'd just stare out my window
Dreaming of what could be
And if I'd end up happy
I would pray

Trying hard to reach out
But when I tried to speak out
Felt like no one could hear me
Wanted to belong here
But something felt so wrong here
So I'd pray
I could break away

I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly.
I'll do what it takes till I touch the sky.
Make a wish, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away.
Out of the darkness and into the sun.
But I won't forget all the ones that I love.
I'll take a risk, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away

Wanna feel the warm breeze
Sleep under a palm tree
Feel the rush of the ocean
Get onboard a fast train
Travel on a jetplane
Far away
And break away

I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly.
I'll do what it takes till I touch the sky.
Make a wish, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away.
Out of the darkness and into the sun.
But I won't forget all the ones that I love.
I'll take a risk, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away

Buildings with a hundred floors
Swinging with revolving doors
Maybe I don't know where they'll take me
Gotta keep movin on movin on
Fly away
Break away

I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly.
Though it's not easy to tell you goodbye
Take a risk, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away.
Out of the darkness and into the sun.
But I won't forget the place I come from
I gotta take a risk, take a chance,
Make a change, and break away
Breakaway
Break away"

On self worth

"Learn to value yourself, which means: to fight for your happiness."- Ayn Rand

Life is funny in the sense that somedays we can be overcome with joy and have the utmost confidence in ourselves, and yet wake up the very next morning wondering what the hell we're even doing here. I've had days like this, but, with the help of many people and a lot of searching within, have since learned that we are only worth as much as we allow ourselves to be. We are the ones who have a say in our happiness, and we need to realize and subsequently know that we deserve it.

On sports memorabilia

This stuff is meant to be enjoyed because it represents the rich history of the sports we love. It makes me sad that some people just buy and sell it to turn a profit. It really doesn't matter what it's worth, because it's priceless.

On asking for favors

Some people have no problem asking for favors. Usually, I wouldn't have a problem with this, as long as they appreciate the favors that are done for them (and periodically show their appreciation), and/or occasionally return the favor. Sadly, life isn't that simple and people can really take advantage. The hard part is that some people are so kind and so giving that they don't realize how far out of their way they're going to help someone who doesn't really appreciate them as they should.

On having a filter

I met someone not too long ago, and normally, I would come away from such an event with nice things to say about my interaction with a new friend or acquaintance. However, on this rather unfortunate occasion, I was squared up against someone who lacked a filter. You know those people I'm talking about...

If you know me at all, you know that I absolutely love meeting new people, and that it's easy for me to get comfortable with, and open up to others. I understand that my strong personality may sometimes come off as obnoxious, but I would hope that I'm never perceived as mean or arrogant.

The reason I say this is because when I was around this person, I felt more timid than I have in a long time. When I meet new people who are quiet, I make a conscious effort to get them to open up a little. For the first time in a long time, I didn't want to say too much in fear of what may come out of their mouth- such a know-it-all

This may sound dramatic, but it was pretty brutal, some of the things they said- it was really off-putting. I mean, I had just met this person, and they were already running their mouth in a manner I couldn't believe. I don't get how a person could be like that...

On even more pictures of food

mmm...

4th of July Dinner

BBQ Chicken and Sausage, Garlic Fried Rice,

Baked Beans with Bacon, and Corn Salad

Ravioli di cernia

(seabass filled ravioli with lobster reduction)

La Briciola

San Francisco, CA

Potstickers

Coconut Bay

Burlingame, CA

Gumbo Omelet with Homefries

Cajun Kitchen

Goleta, CA

Cobb Salad

BJ's Restaurant and Brewhouse

Fremont, CA

Lunch Special E

(Unagi, Shrimp and Vegetable Tempura, California Roll)

Ni-Mo

San Mateo, CA

On who you end up with

You never know who you're gonna end up with, and that makes life fun, exciting, scary, nerve wracking, joyous, complicated, easy, suspenseful, worthwhile, difficult, and chaotic, all at the same time.

On taking things for what they are

In life, there are things we can control and things we can't. In my last post, On life being what you make it, I talk about taking hold of things I can control. However, there are unfortunately things that are pretty much out of our control. In such cases, it can be really beneficial to simply take things for what they are. I can't tell you how much time and effort I've wasted trying to control things that were out of my hands. I've now learned that sometimes we need to leave things alone, accept them for what they are, and appreciate them as much as possible. It can make life so much better... and easier.

#the texts that make you smile

#the conversations that warm your heart

#the relationships that change your life

On life being what you make it

I forgot exactly how it was brought up, but the other day my friend told me, "Your life is like a party." to which I replied, "Are you serious?" He then followed up by saying, "You just seem like you're always having fun and enjoying yourself." I told him that it was because I made it that way.

When thinking about this conversation, I first thought to myself, my life is nothing like a party- he couldn't be more wrong. Do you know what I did yesterday? I woke up semi-early and ran three miles. I later spent over five hours studying for the Audit section of the CPA Exam. With the exception of hanging out with friends here and there, my "summer" has basically been comprised of studying for the CPA Exam and taking the different sections. Between the review classes and the homework/studying, I haven't really gotten the chance to relax like I had hoped.

The funny thing about all of this is that despite all of the work I've been doing and all of the stress that I have, I gotta say that I'm enjoying this summer. I'm definitely not seeing my friends as much as I'd like, and that part sucks (cuz when we hang out, it's awesome), but all the studying- it isn't so bad. I try to look at it as an investment in my future- studying for the four exam sections has given me a well-rounded knowledge base that will help me in the business world. Also, as I study for the Audit section, I'm getting a better idea about what my career will be like, and I'm meeting some cool people in my classes.

I could approach all of this in many different ways, but trying to make the best it, and making the effort to enjoy myself throughout this process- well, that's the only way I know how to do it. It has to do with attitude. In no way am I having the time of my life, but I'm still happy. I don't know if it's weird, or dorky, or even slightly concerning, but I kinda like learning this stuff. I guess I am having fun...

...because I made it that way.

On butterflies

When we were younger, we'd see a butterfly land on a flower and we were so intrigued because it was really beautiful. We wanted to get closer to see it better, but we knew that if we moved too quickly, it would fly away. So, we'd take our time and slowly make our way towards the flower, as to not frighten the butterfly. However, when we finally got close enough to truly appreciate what we were seeing, it would fly away, just like that.

On one regret

Obviously my four years in college weren't perfect, but they were absolutely the best years I've had so far (hopefully that will change in the near future). However, I'm unfortunately regretting something- not something I did, but something I didn't do. It's kinda too late to do anything about it now, and I'm just gonna have to deal with that. Even though I made many mistakes during my years in LA, this is probably the only thing I regret...and I didn't even do it.

On why we do it

Do you ever tell yourself that you're not gonna do something, and then almost immediately after, you do it, and later feel really terrible about it? Why does this happen? Is there any way to prevent it? Maybe it has to do with a momentary lapse of judgement, or even lack of control.

On Brian Wilson quotes

You guys gotta check this out. So awesome...

http://bleacherreport.com/articles/671371-san-francisco-giants-brian-wilsons-10-most-hilarious-quotes

On our dreams

"If you don't have dreams, you don't have anything."- Jimmy Morris

On growing out my hair

I like to keep my hair short. No surprises there. But when I mean short, I mean I like to get it cut every four to five weeks. Why? Because I hate it when it's long.

However, for some unknown reason, I've decided to let it grow out. It's already long (by my standards) and I can't remember the last time I got it cut, but I'm gonna give myself another month to see what it looks like. Bad idea? Good idea? We'll see...

On accepting help

Just because you have someone help you doesn't mean you've failed. It means you're not in it alone.

On taking risks

Those who take risks may not live long, but those who take no risks never live at all.

On closing

Closing out a game and finishing strong can be a tough thing to do, but if you don't play well enough to win and give it everything you've got until the very last second, you don't deserve it. Gotta leave it all out on the field...

On fishing

Yesterday I went fishing with some family friends at Lake Chabot in Castro Valley. We were all super excited to catch some fish an eat it for dinner, but after a few hours we packed it up and went home empty handed...or so we thought. I guess that most would measure success by the number of fish caught, but even though we didn't catch anything, it was a blast! It was a lot of fun hanging out with everyone on the pier, bonding over our collective failure to reel one in. I can't wait to go fishing again :)

On turn signals

I really don't get why people don't use their turn signals- do they want to get into an accident? Also, what's up with those people who signal, change lanes or turn, but forget their signal is still on? It's really not that difficult.

On freeing ourselves from bad relationships

This post was inspired by TJ.

Sometimes we unfortunately find ourselves in situations where it's hard to be friends with someone. Being friends with them has become so complicated, and causes us so much unnecessary frustration, stress, and headache. We start to wonder if being friends with them is worth it anymore. Are we getting anything out of this friendship? Do the costs of the relationship outweigh the benefits?

In life, it's really important to keep good company. The sad truth is that not everyone we meet is in fact good company. Also, people change, sometimes for the worse. We need to free ourselves from these bad relationships because they're anchors weighing us down, keeping us from moving forward with our lives. I know it sounds kinda dramatic, but we gotta cut these people loose. It's for our own good.

This relatively straight-forward idea of cutting ties with all the negative influences in our lives is made complicated by the emotional connection we might have with them. For example, if we've known a person for years- grew up with them- it's extremely difficult to simply give up and walk away. We can't just bail on our friends, right? I agree, but we need to make sure they're really our friends. A real friend doesn't put us in bad or awkward positions. They don't take advantage of the relationship without giving anything back. We don't need any of that.

I hope it's obvious that I don't mean we should walk away from a friend in need because it's always important to be there for our friends. However, if we have friends that are constantly in need, constantly asking us for "big favors", constantly getting into trouble- is that a good relationship?

There are too many people in this world to get held back by those who don't really care about us.

On Casual Fridays

Not too long ago, I was hanging out with my grandparents and I don't know exactly how this came up, but my grandpa claimed to have invented the concept of Casual Friday. He said that when he was working a long time ago (possibly at Standard Oil), he "didn't feel like wearing a tie to work" on a Friday. Apparently, others agreed with him and the following week, more guys were showing up to work without ties. My grandpa told us that after that, the bosses said that no one had to wear a tie on Friday.

On why we drink

This is from a sign at my grandpa's house:

"Those who drink get drunk.

Those who get drunk go to sleep.

Those who go to sleep do not sin.

Those who do not sin go to heaven.

So let's all drink and go to heaven."

On not moving

Cheers to the stubborn...

The Man Who Can't Be Moved- The Script

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gS9o1FAszdk

"Going back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag, I'm not gonna move
Got some words on cardboard, got your picture in my hand
Saying if you see this girl can you tell her where I am

Some try to hand me money, they don't understand
I'm not broke I'm just a broken hearted man
I know it makes no sense, but what else can I do
How can I move on when I've been in love with you

'Cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'd see me waiting for you on the corner of the street

So I'm not moving
I'm not moving

Policeman says son you can't stay here
I said there's someone I'm waiting for if it's a day, a month, a year
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go

'Cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you see me waiting for you on the corner of the street

So I'm not moving
I'm not moving
I'm not moving
I'm not moving

People talk about the guy
Who's waiting on a girl, oh whoa
There are no holes in his shoes
But a big hole in his world

Maybe I'll get famous as the man who can't be moved
And maybe you won't mean to but you'll see me on the news
And you'll come running to the corner
'Cause you'll know it's just for you

I'm the man who can't be moved
I'm the man who can't be moved

'Cause if one day you wake up and find that you're missing me
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we meet
Oh, you see me waiting for you on a corner of the street

So I'm not moving
('Cause if one day you wake up, find that you're missing me)
I'm not moving
(And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be)
I'm not moving
(Thinking maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet)
I'm not moving
(Oh, you see me waiting for you on a corner of the street)

Going back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag, I'm not gonna move"

On donating blood

I donated blood earlier today at Blood Centers of the Pacific in Millbrae. It's something I try to do as often as I can because it takes so little effort on my part and can potentially make a big difference in someone's life. I think donating blood is something that everyone should at least consider- it doesn't take a lot of time and it makes you feel good, helping someone. Over my four years in Los Angeles, I gave a gallon to the UCLA Blood and Platelet Center and got a special pin (woohoo...lol). I get that many are freaked out by needles and that's a hard thing to get past, but the truth is that there are a lot of people who need it. Just something to think about...

On Field Of Dreams 2: Lockout

SO FUNNY:

http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/7836326dd7/field-of-dreams-2-nfl-lockout-with-taylor-lautner?playlist=featured_videos

On my imagination

A classic from my favorite band:

Just My Imagination- The Temptations

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M5Z9-QCmZyw

"Each day through my window I watch her as she passes by.

I say to myself, 'You're such a lucky guy.'
To have a girl like her
is truly a dream come true.
Out of all of the fellas in the world
she belongs to me.

But it was just my imagination
running away with me.
It was just my imagination
running away with me.

Soon we'll be married
and raise a family.
In a cozy, little home out in the country
with two children, maybe three.
I tell you, I can visualize it all.
This couldn't be a dream for too real it all seems.

But it was just my imagination, once again
running away with me.
I tell you it was just my imagination
running away with me.

Every night, on my knees I pray,
'Dear Lord, hear my plea
Don't ever let another take her love from me
or I will surely die.'
Ooh, her love is heavenly;
when her arms enfold me,
I hear a tender rhapsody,
but in reality, she doesn't even know me

Just my imagination, once again
running away with me.
Tell you it was just my imagination
running away with me.
I never met her, but I can't forget her.
Just my imagination
running away with me..."

On Texas Hold 'Em

I've been playing Hold 'Em for a number of years now, and what I've learned is that the game is just as much about luck as it is skill. I'm a pretty streaky player in that I wouldn't consider myself either lucky or unlucky. I can collect chips just as fast as I can lose them in a big pot- it really depends on the night.

The great thing about poker is that it's as much about playing the person as it is playing the cards. Granted, it's really hard to win if you don't have the cards, and bluffing only goes so far if the other guy has the nuts (the best possible hand). It's really difficult to keep it casual when I play because I'm always looking to see what other people are doing- watching how they move and how they bet in different situations. I understand that there's a lot of math involved- probabilities and pot odds- but I try not to get caught up in the calculations because a 1% chance is still a chance.

Even though I've been playing for a while, I don't know if I would consider myself "good." I think I understand the game almost as well as the next guy, but being a "good" poker player is a little more arbitrary than you'd think. I guess you could base talent off of overall winnings, but then you'd also have to take luck into account, and that's where it gets complicated.

I can't really tell how I come off at a poker table, because I'm trying not to give too much away to my opponents, but the game is always pretty stressful for me. I don't know if exhilarating is the right word, but I love the rush after winning a huge pot. Unfortunately, on the flip side, losing a big one can be pretty defeating.

My general stance on poker, and gambling in general, is that I hate losing money more than I like winning it. I just have to tell myself that I'm paying for the entertainment value and if I happen to win some money, then great! I'd say that over all these years, I've come out about even, possibly $20-$40 ahead.

Earlier tonight, I got really lucky, and it was pretty epic. Within the span of a few hours, I had a straight-flush (6 to 10 in diamonds) and four 8's. I ended up winning $30 so I'd say it was a good night.

On finding yourself

It's good to give yourself to others because in the event you lose yourself, they can help you find yourself.

On price and value

"A fool knows the price of everything and the value of nothing."

On keeping in touch

This post was inspired by Cassie :)

One of the best things about college was the fact that most of my friends were super close by. Despite our somewhat busy schedules, it was fairly easy to make plans with people, most of the time on short notice. During my senior year, my closest friends lived right down the street...lucky, huh? Now that I've graduated and moved back home, I have to make more of an effort to see everyone, and I'm sure many of you feel the same way.

It feels similar to when high school ended- everyone went off to college and we could only hang out over breaks. As we get older and get more involved doing our own thing, we meet tons of new people, but at the same time, it's a lot more difficult to keep in touch with everyone else.

It's obviously hard... actually, pretty much impossible to keep in touch with every single person from our past. At first, I felt bad because I've met so many awesome people throughout the years and it sucks to lose those connections. I guess the reality is that some of the people we were close to before won't play as prominent roles in our lives anymore. It's not a bad thing, and we can still stay connected- it'll just be different.

My take on all of this is that you will remain close to those who simultaneously wish to remain close to you. It has to do with effort- effort to actually keep in touch, effort to see each other, effort to remain a part of each other's lives. Like I said before, I'm sad that I lost touch with some people and feel more distant with others, but I'm very fortunate to have remained close to those who mean a lot to me.

Yesterday, I had lunch with a friend from middle school (or junior high) who went to a different high school and college. It was awesome catching up, as we frequently did during winter breaks, spring breaks, and summers. We were actually talking about this very subject of keeping in touch with people as we reminisced about what we were like ten years ago.

Keeping in touch with people isn't easy and requires a lot of effort, but it's so worth it when we're hanging out with the people who mean a lot to us, and we'll find that those relationships continue to grow even stronger.

On following advice

Most of the time, the hardest advice to follow is your own. I wonder why that is...

On quotes from John R. Wooden

Here are some brilliant and inspiring quotes from a brilliant and inspiring man:

"Make each day your masterpiece."

"Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do."

"Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful."

"Ability may get you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there."

"Listen if you want to be heard."

"Discipline yourself and others won't need to."

"Be quick, but don't hurry."

On last night's dream

Sometimes when we wake up in the morning after a having pretty vivid dream, we'll ask ourselves, What did that mean?

I believe that the dreams we have at night are inherently complex and it's difficult to make sense of them. Conceptually, it's weird to consciously delve into our subconscious. Although I have what I believe to be a fairly irrational view on the subject, maybe this will help you make sense of it all.

If the dream was a bad one with potentially negative implications, it doesn't mean anything. This is because it was in your subconscious rather than real life. Therefore, don't worry about it.

If the dream was a good one, it definitely means that something good is about to happen :)

On her laugh

When she laughed, the world stopped, for it was a sight to be seen and a joy to be heard.

On feelings

One thing I've learned over the years is that you can't help the way you feel about things. It's just something you can't control, and depending on who you are, I guess it can be a good thing or a bad thing.

On NASCAR

Being a huge baseball fan, I'm pretty sympathetic to the fact that many people can easily dismiss something you love because they don't understand it, and don't take the time or make the effort to do so. That being said, and this may sound super hypocritical, what's up with NASCAR? Really, tell me how watching tons of cars drive around the same circle 500 times is remotely interesting. Ooo, they're making a pit stop- big whoop. I don't get it...

On 99¢ boba milk tea

The Quickly in Millbrae, or as Vidur appropriately named it, "Takes-A-Long-Time-ly" has 99¢ ($1.08) boba milk tea (with tapioca!)- how epic is that?

On Singlebarrel and Downtown San Jose

Last night, Rohit, Tanti, Vicky, Jessie, and I went bar hopping in downtown San Jose and it was super awesome! We started at this place called Singlebarrel and it's unlike any other bar I've ever been to before. It's a classy, speakeasy style establishment, located in a fairly small basement, and they monitor the number of people inside so it doesn't get too crowded. The unique part of Singlebarrel is that you don't just go up to the bar and order a drink. Instead, your group spends some time with the bartender, allowing them to get an idea about each person's cocktail preferences- sweet, sour, citrus, mask the alcohol, etc. Then they make a drink to match you. It was really cool watching the bartender mix all of our drinks, and everyone was quite pleased with what they were given. My drink was called a Ding Ho (funny name, huh?), which is pretty similar to a Mai Tai, so I was happy. If you're ever in the area and looking to try something new, I highly recommend checking this place out.

After Singlebarrel, we went to happy hour at Flames and we had a shot of Kettle One (and subsequently learned that strawberry jam is not a good chaser). Also, per the waitress's recommendation, we tried the "Chocolate Cake Shot"- it was crazy! It looked like multiple shots in this huge glass and actually tasted like chocolate cake haha. We then made our way over to Cinebar and hit up Freddie J's before closing. It was a lot of fun, and a lot of drinking haha- Old Fashioneds, Sex on the Beach (I know, girly... but great), and Bacardi and Coke. Also, Justin and I almost got into a fight (with good cause of course), but thankfully, it wasn't necessary. It was a pretty great night, partially evidenced by the dull headache I currently have lol.

I was also able to go to Fremont's Top of the World for the first time, and it was glorious.

A single barrel outside of Singlebarrel

On how people turn out

"The people who turn out best are those people who make the best out of the way things turn out." - John R. Wooden

On more pictures of food

As you could probably tell, I enjoy taking pictures of food... almost as much as I enjoy eating it lol. That being said...

Sunday Waffle with Nutella, fresh strawberries,
and whipped cream

Seaweed Salad, California Roll, and
homemade Tuna Poke with Rice

Graduation Cupcakes from Auntie Lena!

Epic Picnic Burger- grilled onions, sauteed mushrooms,
red onion, guacamole, bacon, lettuce,
tomato, bbq sauce, and cheddar cheese

Coconut Bread Pudding I made for Mother's Day

New Orleans Benediction
(Poached Eggs over Crabcakes and English Muffin
with House Potatoes)
Crepevine
Burlingame, CA

On 100,000 miles

A couple days ago, one of our cars hit 100,000 miles. It was pretty exciting...

The Odometer showing 100,000 miles

On bowling

Earlier today, I bowled a 186. It was pretty awesome :)

On missing something

At this point, everything looks right (for the most part), but something seems to be missing and I think I know what it is. I could be wrong, as I have been before, but I don't think that's the case this time around.

On "Wherever You Will Go"

...in the process of learning to play this on the piano...

Wherever You Will Go- The Calling

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP9AF6DCu4

"So lately, been wondering
Who will be there to take my place
When I'm gone you'll need love
To light the shadows on your face

If a greater wave shall fall
And fall upon us all
Then between the sand and stone
Could you make it on your own?

If I could, then I would
I'll go wherever you will go
Way up high or down low
I'll go wherever you will go

And maybe, I'll find out
A way to make it back someday
To watch you, to guide you
Through the darkest of your days

If a great wave shall fall
And fall upon us all
Well then I hope there's someone out there
Who can bring me back to you

If I could, then I would
I'll go wherever you will go
Way up high or down low
I'll go wherever you will go

Run away with my heart
Run away with my hope
Run away with my love

I know now, just quite how
My life and love might still go on
In your heart, in your mind
I'll stay with you for all of time

If I could, then I would
I'll go wherever you will go
Way, way up high or down low
I'll go wherever you will go

If I could turn back time
I'll go wherever you will go
If I could make you mine
I'll go wherever you will go
I'll go wherever you will go"

On glory

"Pain heals. Chicks dig scars. Glory... lasts forever."- Keanu Reeves as Shane Falco in The Replacements (2000)

On Axis of Awesome

YOU HAVE TO SEE THIS VIDEO- IT'S SO AWESOME!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pidokakU4I

On meaning what you say

Say what you mean and mean what you say.

On sandwiches

Sandwiches are simply awesome, and here's why: they're so versatile and the options are endless. A sandwich can be interpreted in any way possible, and can be made to meet the preferences of every individual. They can be hot or cold, deli or gourmet, surrounded by a bun (burgers), tortilla (burritos), or pita (gyros), eaten on the go or at the table, with your hands or a knife and fork- they're all sandwiches! You could also go as far as comparing sandwiches to sushi (?!). That might be pushing the envelope, but you can understand where I'm coming from, right?

Earlier today, I hung out with Alexis and when we were trying to figure out where to eat lunch, she told me about this Thanksgiving sandwich she hadn't had in a while from Sam's Italian Sandwich Co. at the Depot on the corner of California and Howard in Burlingame. I don't know if I ever ate there before, and if I did, it must have been a long time ago. Thus, I didn't know what to order, so I decided to follow Alexis. We both got June's Turkey Sandwich and it was ridiculously good: turkey, lettuce, tomato, cream cheese, cranberry sauce, and stuffing on a fresh soft roll. It's easily one of the best sandwiches I've ever had, and that's a lot of sandwiches. You gotta try it!

Make a meal into a sandwich or a sandwich into a meal, and you can't go wrong.